Reclaim Valentine’s Day!
/in Blog, Featured, Passion, Relationships, Smart Love /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Read moreInstead of swiping right and looking for someone new this Valentine’s Day, put down the phone and re-new the relationship that is right in front of you.
Affair of the Heart vs. Sexual Affair: Part 2 Rebuilding the Trust
/4 Comments/in Affairs, Blog, Featured, Relationships /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Affair of the Heart vs Sexual Affair: Part 1 Which is More Devastating?
/2 Comments/in Affairs, Blog, Featured /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.You’re Not Nuts! (You’re Being Gaslighted)
/6 Comments/in Affairs, Blog, Conflict, Featured, Relationships /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Read moreAre you in a relationship that sometimes has you question your sense of self and even your sanity? Do you occasionally think, “Something just isn’t right here…”? Do you feel chronically insecure, but you’re not sure why?
Dr. Dean Edell reviews THE LOVE FIX
/4 Comments/in Blog, Featured, Love Fix Reviews, My Two Cents /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Before he retired, Dr. Dean Edell hosted the nationally-syndicated Dr. Dean Show, for decades the highest-rated program on the radio. But to me, Dean was a role model, teaching me that the media could be used not just for entertainment, but to make the world a better place.
Dr. Dean Edell’s spectacular review of THE LOVE FIX:
When you fall in love you ultimately raise your chances of eventual conflict and pain. If you accept that conflict can be a great teacher then you are ready for the next level. Yes, Dr. Tara Fields has three decades under her belt as a couple’s therapist but unlike most of her brethren, also has had a vast experience in the media. So she knows how to communicate. And you are the beneficiary. That’s only one reason why this is the best relationship book I have ever read. Modern psychological research has advanced our knowledge beyond the simplistic idea that relationship problems are because men and women are from different planets! Hang on, because if you are serious about improving fixing and growing your love look no further. First, this is NOT a book full of vague feel-good platitudes and homilies. Yes, it is wise and modern but most important for me, refreshingly objective, down to earth, direct and practical. For instance, you and your partner can take self assessment tests (HEARTwork) that give you a numerical score for your feelings and relationship status…then armed with such REAL information, you will find simple practical exercises ( 3-minute Fix) that anyone can do . And then there are the stories about real people gleaned from Fields extensive experience as a therapist. These vignettes read like a novel you can’t put down. I believe that this is an important book even if you are not in a stressed relationship. The push in medicine these days is prevention. Why not take that attitude about your relationship which after all can be the most important source of joy or misery in your life. This is a must read for all of us.
Dean Edell M.D.
The 10 Ways You Fight (and How to Really Win)
/in Blog, Conflict, Featured, Relationships, Smart Love /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Here’s a newsflash: even the best couples fight.
It’s not conflict that drives couples apart
– in fact, a little disagreement with your spouse or partner can show commitment to the relationship. Over time, conflict can build trust in the idea that you can handle hard times together. Read more
The Favorite Child
/in Blog, Featured, Parenting, Relationships /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Do you prefer one of your children?
If you think your favoritism is no big deal—think again. The consequences for both the Golden Child and the runner-up can last a lifetime.
The reality is that most parents will identify with one of their offspring more than the others, which is not harmful when all the children are well loved. But favoritism, taken to an extreme, can cause psychological and even physical harm. Read more
The High-Stakes Price Children Pay When a Parent Sneaks Around
/in Affairs, Blog, Featured, Parenting, Relationships /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Whether or not an adult decides to cheat when married (or in a committed relationship) is basically his or her business.
I am a firm believer that consenting adults should be free to do anything they want, within reason.
After all, as adults, they possess the freedom of choice, and in choosing to cheat, one presumes that the participants are also cognitively choosing to suffer the consequences. Read more
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Reclaim Valentine’s Day! | Tara Fields
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