Tangled Up and Blue?
/in Blog, Conflict, Relationships /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.You’re Not Nuts! (You’re Being Gaslighted)
/6 Comments/in Affairs, Blog, Conflict, Featured, Relationships /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Read moreAre you in a relationship that sometimes has you question your sense of self and even your sanity? Do you occasionally think, “Something just isn’t right here…”? Do you feel chronically insecure, but you’re not sure why?
How To Stop Driving Love Away
/in Blog, Conflict, Relationships, Smart Love /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.No matter where we are in a relationship—newly dating or married for decades—we all want love and we all want connection. So what is it about conflict, uncertainty or disappointment with a partner that always seems to disconnect us and drive love away?
If you’re still dancing the “come-close-go away” with someone you care about, or just sabotaged yet another promising romance, maybe it’s time to look at what you’re doing and try something new. Read more
Transforming Conflict
/in Blog, Conflict, Relationships /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.New and never-ending conflict may garner big ratings on certain reality shows or guarantee an invite back for season two, but for those of us who live off screen, a constant stream of conflict can keep us steeped in misery.
But there are ways to handle the inevitable disagreements and disagreeable parts of life.
The 10 Ways You Fight (and How to Really Win)
/in Blog, Conflict, Featured, Relationships, Smart Love /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Here’s a newsflash: even the best couples fight.
It’s not conflict that drives couples apart
– in fact, a little disagreement with your spouse or partner can show commitment to the relationship. Over time, conflict can build trust in the idea that you can handle hard times together. Read more
My Brother, My Bully – When a Sibling Wields the Sword
/in Blog, Conflict, Parenting /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Just when we think we have made significant inroads on bullying at school, a study published in the journal Pediatrics reveals that sibling bullying can be far worse than what happens at school.
According to a study of over 3,500 children (up to age 17), the long-term consequences of being bullied, Read more
Quiz: What Is Your Conflict Personality?
/in Blog, Conflict /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Here’s a newsflash: even the best couples fight. And it’s not conflict that drives couples apart – in fact, a little disagreement with your spouse or partner can show commitment to the relationship.
Over time, conflict can build trust in the idea that you can handle hard times together. It’s the way you and your partner fight that can drive a wedge between you.
This quiz will help you start to understand your conflict personality Read more
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