How To Flirt With ALL The Confidence

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Tara provides some practical advice that flirting doesn’t need to be that complicated.

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The 10 Key Elements That Define An Intimate Relationship, According To Experts

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Developing an intimate relationship isn’t easy and usually involves a few roadblocks. Tara Fields was recently quoted in this article that provides 10 ways to tell you’ve made it to that stage of the relationship.

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Working from Home: Dream Job, or Welcome to Hell?

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If you have a daily commute kind of job, you may fantasize about working from home, thinking, “Wow. That’s the life.” But ask any professional who does it, and you’ll get an earful. Now that the Coronavirus is forcing all sorts of people who generally drive to an office to shift their workspace, here’s how to navigate what Craig Faustus Buck, a novelist, calls “the potpourri of procrastination opportunities provided by the lack of supervision.”
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Reclaim Valentine’s Day!

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Instead of swiping right and looking for someone new this Valentine’s Day, put down the phone and re-new the relationship that is right in front of you.

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How to Date Multiple People

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Photo: STYLECASTER

Photo: STYLECASTER


Tara Fields was recently quoted in STYLECASTER. Read the original article here. 

Dating more than one person at a time is no longer the borderline fringe, Samantha Jones-esque walk on the wild side that it was once portrayed as in the 90s and early 00s. In 2017 and the age of Tinder, juggling multiple romantic prospects at once is not only accepted, but smart—even if what you’re ultimately looking for is a committed, monogamous LTR.

“Seeing multiple people is a great idea when you’re single and navigating the dating world,” says couples therapist and relationship expert Tara Fields, Ph.D., author of The Love Fix. “Don’t make the mistake of jumping into an exclusive relationship after a few dates. In most cases it’s really healthy to say, ‘I’m going to sample this smorgasbord of available prospects.”

But before you dive in and start filling your G-cal, be sure to check out these five handy etiquette tips for dating several people simultaneously—they’ll keep things stress-free, fun and classy.

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Toxic Shame

Healthy Shame vs. Toxic Shame

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Are you carrying the burden of shame that doesn’t belong to you?Were you Sexually abused as a child? Were those who were suppose to protect you choose to turn a blind eye, choosing to not see what they see or know what they know– we take on their shame.As they grow up, children who are […]
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When Then Game, Tara Fields, Ph.D., LMFT

How to Stop Playing the “WHEN, THEN” Game

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Embrace the Present and Enjoy (the) “Now”Feeling anxious and powerless about the future since the November 8 election? Join the club.There has never been a better time to role up our sleeves and empower ourselves by working on what we do have control of and what is truly important…our relationships.Working on a relationship is . […]
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relationship tug of war, Tara Fields, Ph.D., LMFT

Feeling Frayed from a Tug Of War with your Partner? End it today!

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November 8, 2016Feeling anxious and powerless? You are not alone. Anxiety and feelings of powerlessness are at an all time high. To assuage those feelings it helps to take charge of the things you can control. If you are in a power struggle with your partner you have the power to end it today.Here’s how….   Imagine a tug […]
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