About Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.
Tara Fields, Ph.D is a licensed marriage and family therapist based in Marin County California. Her 28+ year practice focuses on couple and family relationships.
A psychotherapist, author and speaker, Dr. Fields integrates family systems, mindfulness-based cognitive behavioral therapy and attachment theory in her clinical practice, working with individuals, couples and families.
Fields is author of the forthcoming HarperCollins book The Love Fix: Repair and Restore Your Relationship Right Now, publishing August 2015. Local and national publications include Redbook, Glamour and Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, San Francisco, Chronicle, Oakland Tribune, Contra Costa Times, Marin Independent Journal and Seattle Times.
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8 Pieces of Relationship Advice You Should Never Take
January 9, 2016 in Quoted in the Press /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Plug your ears, ladies.By Lindsay Tigar Dec 18, 2015Let’s get one thing straight: Even the healthiest of couples have plenty of not-so-stellar moments. So just because you’re going through a tough time doesn’t mean you’re headed for divorce. And you probably just want some advice that will actually make a difference. The bad news is that a lot […]
What to Do When Your Mom Is Totally Ready For You to Be a Mom
November 13, 2015 in Quoted in the Press /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.More than anything, your mother loved welcoming you into the world, so it’s really no wonder that the woman who raised you is ready for another bundle of baby joy. “The birth of a grandchild brings on the next phase of life for which some women are yearning,” explains Karen Ruskin, licensed marriage and family […]
How to Solve the Most Common Relationship Conflicts
November 13, 2015 in Featured In The Press /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.When you hit a relationship rut—you and your partner argue about the same thing over and over again—it can seem like there’s no end in sight. So how to escape these exhausting conflict loops? On this week’s episode of “The Labor of Love,” host and RealSimple.com editor Lori Leibovich talks to Tara Fields, a marriage […]
The Love Fix: Repair And Restore Your Relationship Right Now
September 20, 2015 in Featured In The Press /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.SEPTEMBER 15, 2015 – BY ROSE CAIOLAMaintaining a lifelong relationship is often difficult, even under the best of circumstances. As a society, many people turn away from the obstacles that come up in relationships rather than learning to deal with them—one of the biggest challenges being conflict. While conflict is inevitable, it’s how you handle […]
7 Signs You’re Expecting Way Too Much From Your Husband
September 20, 2015 in Quoted in the Press /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.15 Ways You’re Secretly Ruining Your Marriage
September 11, 2015 in Quoted in the Press /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.YOU TEND TO PLAY THE VICTIM You tend to play the victim On the flip side, looking for ways he’s wronged you is a common defense mechanism when you’re feeling hurt or frustrated. It’s all too easy to throw a pity party when he goes on a work trip, leaving you to handle the kids […]
You’re Not Nuts! (You’re Being Gaslighted)
August 5, 2015 /6 Comments/in Affairs, Blog, Conflict, Featured, Relationships /by Tara Fields Ph.D., M.F.T.Are you in a relationship that sometimes has you question your sense of self and even your sanity? Do you occasionally think, “Something just isn’t right here…”? Do you feel chronically insecure, but you’re not sure why?
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Reclaim Valentine’s Day! | Tara Fields
Instead of swiping right and looking for someone new this Valentine’s Day, put down the phone and re-new the relationship that is right in front of you. Instead of just “getting through” Valenti...2 years ago
Reclaim Valentine’s Day! | Tara Fields
Instead of swiping right and looking for someone new this Valentine’s Day, put down the phone and re-new the relationship that is right in front of you. Instead of just “getting through” Valenti...3 years ago
We Asked 1,320 Therapists What They’re Hearing From Patients
Frontline mental health workers in every state say they can’t keep up with the demand from patients struggling with the disruptions of pandemic life.3 years ago
We Asked 1,320 Therapists What They’re Hearing From Patients
Frontline mental health workers in every state say they can’t keep up with the demand from patients struggling with the disruptions of pandemic life.4 years ago
Perspective | Kamala Harris’s marriage inspires so many of us still searching for our Dougs
Harris and Emhoff's courtship offers hope — and a little instruction.