How To Ease A Conflict Loop In Your RelationshipConflict and Protections in ChildhoodOne thing we learn in childhood is how to create ways to feel safe and protect ourselves. As children, we are living in the land of giants and even if we have loving parents, there is still the occasion where a parent is towering over […]
Tara Fields was recently quoted in STYLECASTER. Read the original article here. Ending any relationship is hard, but add to that the complicating factor of living together, and you get a seriously thorny breakup situation. I speak from experience. When my ex and I called it quits, we fought about stuff we’d never argued about […]
Tara Fields was recently quoted in STYLECASTER. Read the original article here. Few topics in life get awkward faster than money. (Except maybe talking about sex with your parents or explaining why you’re a die-hard Democrat to your 90-year-old grandmother.) People can be famously neurotic about money, whether they have a ton of it or […]
If you’ve been hiding something from your spouse and you’re worried it’s hurting your relationship, this expert advice will help you come clean.Tara Fields was recently quoted in Cosmopolitan magazine. Read the original article here. Every husband and wife keeps secrets — they could be as minor as what your singing voice really sounds like, or […]
No Trust – No Relationship.Ripping down trust may take only a few minutes, but it takes a long time to rebuild it. We talked about transparency in Part 1 of this two part series, but let’s go a bit deeper into what it really means. Exhibiting total transparency in an effort to rebuild trust in […]
Part 1 of a Two Part Series on Rebuilding The Relationship After an Affair of the Heart or Sexual AffairThe revelation of an affair of the heart (where a partner fell in love and/or had a deep emotional involvement) or a sexual affair is devastating but it doesn’t have to end a committed relationship. In […]
In The Love Fix, I talk a lot about expectations. Timing is everything. Before you even start dating, think about who you want as your life partner. Sit with yourself. What are your deal-breakers? Then, how do you envision a relationship? Are you looking out for the red flags?A psychiatrist wrote a book for therapists […]
Back in the eighties, the personal growth movement and certain schools of therapy said that if you’re feeling angry, you should share it with the other person, just dump it on him or her, leaving the other person a mere puddle on the ground. This was supposed to help you release your anger. Maybe it even […]
Reclaim Valentine’s Day! | Tara Fields
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Instead of swiping right and looking for someone new this Valentine’s Day, put down the phone and re-new the relationship that is right in front of you. Instead of just “getting through” Valenti...
Reclaim Valentine’s Day! | Tara Fields
www.tarafields.com
Instead of swiping right and looking for someone new this Valentine’s Day, put down the phone and re-new the relationship that is right in front of you. Instead of just “getting through” Valenti...
We Asked 1,320 Therapists What They’re Hearing From Patients
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Frontline mental health workers in every state say they can’t keep up with the demand from patients struggling with the disruptions of pandemic life.
We Asked 1,320 Therapists What They’re Hearing From Patients
www.nytimes.com
Frontline mental health workers in every state say they can’t keep up with the demand from patients struggling with the disruptions of pandemic life.
Perspective | Kamala Harris’s marriage inspires so many of us still searching for our Dougs
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Harris and Emhoff's courtship offers hope — and a little instruction.
